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    Have you flat out asked her to stop because you are not him and really there has never been a problem before, so there is no reason for the reminders?

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    I'd be just blocking her




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    What about giving her post dated cheques and then she wouldn't worry if the money was there or not?

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    She has no life - we deal with the same thing!

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    In the 4 1/2 years that they have been separated, DF has never missed a payment, and he has even advanced payments when she needs the money for a new tanny, roof etc. They do not go through FRO, as this is DF's step son, and she would have to find the bio dad (DSS doesnt even know his bio dad's name). They did up their own, notaried separation agreement, and again he has always paid, never missed a payment or short changed her.

    I sent her a message saying I would contact her once I forward the payment, we always do EMT. Hopefully she stops giving us reminders!!

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    have you concidered asking her why she feel she need to remind you since you have never missed a payment or been late or anything?
    ~Who ever said "don't cry over spilt milk" has never been a breast feeding mother with latch issues standing over a puddle



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    Quote Originally Posted by Mommy2Cuties View Post
    Haha I agree with a few of the others.
    Mature answer would be to block her and let her bug him (sorry DH hehe)

    But I would probably play her own game and let her see how annoying it is (which she may realize, but doubtful) and write her back saying

    payment is coming.....
    On our way to the bank...
    Money is deposited.....
    Did you check your acct yet?....
    Is the money there?......
    and then make the more frequent “did you get it yet?“ (repeat as necessary)
    then:

    hehehehe


    this^^^^^
    who wants to be grown up about these things?lol
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