I agree with the PP.
If we were to ever ask J if he wanted to go visit his Mom, he would say no. He hates going there every other March Break and half of Christmas, but it's important he does it.
So with us, when he asks how long he is going away for, and we say a week, we have to quickly play it up and try to make it exciting. Legally we wouldn't be able to let him stay here because we do have a court order that has all the access times set in stone.
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