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    Default single for a few weeks VERY LONG

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    double post
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    i was in an abusive situation for 10 years.
    my ex was verbally, physically and emotionally hurtful.
    i endured many phone calls to police who never wrote reports, never followed up, never helped.
    when we separated which he agreed to by the way....
    he left notes on my car, bought me presents, stopped by with take out....and good take out too!!
    i was an idiot i tried, sort of, for our daughter.
    again when i got beat up, finally a cop layed charges!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    he was angry that i was going to a friends house and he refused to come with...
    but i guess i wasn't suppose to go either...
    he was found guilty in court
    we have been separated for 8 years.
    he abuses our daughter now.
    I NEVER thought he would.
    he withholds benefits, child support and offers our daughter no support or encouragement.

    You can only be consistent with your no's
    be scheduled with access.
    and IF things get bad.
    protect yourself, protect your child and get into court immediately to finalize things.

    I can't offer more then that.
    Tami
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    deleted me
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    my ex thought by not picking up our daughter it would stop me from dating.
    he also wanted our daughter to blame me.
    even to this day.
    i get the awful verbal attacks... some of the names ugh...
    please keep in mind if your custody is not settled and he refuses to give your son back some officers will say sorry about your luck. ran into that one too.
    aftre my experience i am not the biggest believe in men who display conflicted behaviours.

    The future is uncertain... but this uncertainty is at the very heart of human creativity

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    IMO
    getting that settled takes the fear out of it.
    my ex took our daughter 2x.
    once from school.
    i didn't see her for a week.
    i offerred my ex 3 out of 4 weekends, every other march break, and alternating holidays. mine were even years his were odd years.
    then 2 weeks in the summer straight time.
    he was excellant for the first 6 months....
    after that he started missing access and then not paying his support.
    i didn't mention he has been living with another women for the past 5 years.
    been dating her since before we separated......lol
    Rebecca told me about the "other woman" when she was just 4 years old.
    Tami

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    no longer needed I suppose
    Last edited by sharmom; 09-22-2007 at 07:13 AM. Reason: just because

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