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    Default just rambling

    Today I took D to look for her dumper. Since 07 she has not seen him and every Xmas she melts down HUGE worrying about him this year I said to hell with it and took her to look for him.

    With the help of my ex and a coworker of his we went to the coffee house drop in but he was not there but I left her gift for him and she was satisfied with the whole "at least we tried and for today we know he is alive and ok"

    note: she stayed with my ex while me and another person went in the drop in to look

    I gotta give my D credit for being so forgiving becasue I am not as forgiving the only reason I took her was for her sake not mine

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    Big thumbs up to you for doing it for her sake !!






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    more hugs youre strong and so's d. xoxo

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    Aww that was really great of you to do SP.

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    Glad she feels some reassurance after it.
    *hugs* And again, i'm really really really impressed you and your ex have stayed on good terms like you said you would. That's awesome!!!
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    That was sweet of you to do that for her.

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    that was really great that you did that for your dd
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    Good job mama!!!!!!


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    You're a wonderful mother, sp.

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    that is really wonderful of you

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    Well I know for sure it was what she needed D has NEVER slept more than 2 hours with out medication making her do so and she slept for FIVE hours straight. I had thought she took her bedtime meds early as she normally would if tired around 4pm and she hadn't and she slept till 9pm and it was such a peaceful sleep unlike anything i have seen in years

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    you did the hard but right thing! Good you you!

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    update to this:

    The dumper called yesterday and he has not changed at all. He told D he loved her and missed her D invited him for coffee and he told her no way and then said something about me needing to go to court.

    I got him on the phone and told him I was not out to cause poop and if he wanted access re-instated he needed to do the work to do so, that D was more stable now with her meds and he should call cpri (under the court order we have a no contact order but due to her bipolar and other issues he has the right to medical information if he seeks it out) he told me to eff off and something else and I hung up

    D looks ten times better and lighter and its what she needed but damn if I did not hold out hope that he would ahve changed

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    I'm sorry he hasn't changed SP. You did a great thing for D though!

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    aww, im sorry he has not changed, but im glad D got the affirmation she needed from the call.

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