What do I do to tighten things up down there? I've only had one baby and my husband sometimes cant even feel anytrhing hardly and sometimes I cant feel much either. Its terrible! LOL what have other women done who have had 3-4 kids?? Or even 2 kids? I know they say keigls but is there a better way to do them? Is there a better sex position? How long do you do keigls per day? Any help would be accepted here!