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    Default Never gets easier

    I feel like pregnancy is all around me between the baby shower invites, announcements and heck even today at the Women's Lifestyle Show with the dozens of women pregnant just makes me sad. I mean I am happy for all these other people but makes me realize over and over again all that I am missing simply cause my body was not meant to produce children. I am okay most days I am ok with giving up my biggest dream of becoming pregnant, I have lots of things that keep me happy, brownies, my stepson, my DH of course, fostering kids that need a home for the time being and hopefully one day maybe even consider to go the adoption route. But other days just suck!!!

    I don't know what I wanted to accomplish in this thread guess I just wanted to get it out there




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    HUGS!!

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    *hugs*



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    *hugs* you are not alone. It seems like these times when everyone is announcing they are pregnant comes in chunks. I never know just one person pregnant it seems like it is always a handful in a month or two.

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    I lived in that same spot for SO many years....... seemed like forever. I still sometimes pinch myself when I see my 3 kids and wonder how this all came to be........

    Don't ever sell yourself short on how important what you're doing is....... God knew that those babies that are trusted to your care would need you. There are very few women who can love someone's children as one of their own. I hope and pray that you will find the fulfillment and satisfaction that your mother-heart needs in that!

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    HUGS! i have been there, it just plain sucks
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    Quote Originally Posted by doda94 View Post
    Don't ever sell yourself short on how important what you're doing is....... God knew that those babies that are trusted to your care would need you. There are very few women who can love someone's children as one of their own. I hope and pray that you will find the fulfillment and satisfaction that your mother-heart needs in that!
    Yes... this. You are very important and special.

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    Hugs hun. You are a great mommma-for-right-now to those beautiful children. I will not tell you it will get better or not to feel what you do. Just that you are awesome and that I am here if you need a real hug.
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    HUGS!
    Your life is a result of the choices you make, if you don't like your life it's time to start making better choices.

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    Yes, exactly what they all said and a huge hug from me too.

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    Hug from me too

    Hailey - April 2008
    Scarlett - April 2012
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    *Currently enrolled in the Perinatal Support Practitioner program through Babies Naturally and looking to attend births as a student doula. Please message me for details!*

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    I think anyone would feel the same. Hugs to you.
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