DSS8, DSD7 and DSS3 come to see us every other weekend and Wedsday evenings for 3 hours. The Transition time on fridays takes a couple hours but is tolerable they are just very hyper. Leading up to bringing them home on Sundays is emotional they pout cry act out, makes you feel bad and breaks your heart but again tolerable. Now Wed nights are a mix of both and very trying for sure. We have tried time outs, the compassionate approach, talking things over. We would like to enjoy our time with them and I know it is hard on them but it feels like every 5 minutes we have to speak to them about something. I am curious to know if anyone has found an effective way of dealing with this so that we can enjoy the visit instead of feeling like we are giving them trouble the whole time.